Wanna Ruck?

I was clueless a few months ago when my son, Chris, asked me if I wanted to ruck. He and his family were quarantining with us at the lake during the early days of COVID-19 and he had decided to take advantage of his new work-from-home arrangement to adopt a healthier lifestyle. He was starting to see results from his improved diet and wanted to focus more on his workouts. That’s where this rucking idea surfaced.

Chris explained that rucking was a cardio workout with military roots: you simply load up a backpack (aka rucksack) with weight and walk. Continue reading “Wanna Ruck?”

Our Worst Nightmares Don’t End When We Open Our Eyes

This entry is part 2 of 4 in the series The Heartbreak of Losing our Daughter
In 1999, after struggling for several months with primary sclerosing cholangitis, Walter Payton died from cholangiocarcinoma.

The ten weeks since our daughter, Stephanie, was diagnosed with primary sclerosing cholangitis (PSC) have been a blur of hospitals, tests, and surgical procedures. A steady stream of GI specialists, radiologists and surgeons have poked, prodded and asked the same questions over and over. But despite their collective wisdom, they seemed to have no idea why Stephanie appeared to have skipped over the beginning stages of this normally slowly progressing liver disease and landed somewhere closer to the end.

Well, that’s not exactly true . . . they had one idea. Continue reading “Our Worst Nightmares Don’t End When We Open Our Eyes”

Boost Your Bright Side If You Notice People Avoiding You

We all know at least one Debbie or Donny Downer – the perpetual sad sack that makes our stomach flinch when we see them heading in our direction because we know two minutes into the conversation we’ll be looking for car to jump in front of. I wish I was exaggerating, but few situations in life drain me more than getting cornered by one of these folks.

Is life really that much worse for these doomsters? Has the universe conspired against them as they would have us believe? Continue reading “Boost Your Bright Side If You Notice People Avoiding You”

Life Is Short . . . Eat The Cake

And drink the wine, and the margaritas, and even the champagne! Especially the champagne! Last weekend I decided my newly adopted healthy lifestyle was going to have to stand down; it was after all my birthday. And I had the good fortune to be spending it with friends I’d known . . . well, forever. I wasn’t just hurdling past another annual milestone, I was doing it with some of the best friends a girl could ever have. And that’s a reason to celebrate! Continue reading “Life Is Short . . . Eat The Cake”